Sabrina Barbara

Who I Work With

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I work across all ages and life stages. My specialist areas are grief, loss, anxiety, life transitions, family separation, and the impact of separation on children and parents — and the way all of these move through an entire family system. My clinical approach is emotionally focused and attachment-informed throughout.
I work across all ages and life stages. My specialist areas are grief, loss, anxiety, life transitions, family separation, and the impact of separation on children and parents — and the way all of these move through an entire family system. My clinical approach is emotionally focused and attachment-informed throughout.

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Children & Young People (from age 6)

I work with tamariki and young people experiencing grief, loss, family breakdown, anxiety, and the complex emotions that come with being young in a difficult world.

For younger children I work in age-appropriate, playful ways. For adolescents and young adults I draw on emotionally focused and narrative approaches.

Children don't need to talk to heal. They need to feel safe, understood, and not alone.

"A child who feels truly seen even once carries that with them for the rest of their life."
Sabrina Barbara

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Adults

I work with adults navigating separation, grief, bereavement, loss, and life transitions. If you've tried counselling before and it didn't reach you, the work I do is different. I'm not a skills teacher. I'm an experiential therapist working at the level of emotion.

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Parents

I work specifically with parents navigating the emotional complexity of separation — co-parenting conflict, guilt, grief for the family they had, and the challenge of staying a good parent through their own pain. Sometimes the most important thing a parent can do for their child is get support for themselves.

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Family

I work flexibly — with family members together or separately — depending on what the situation actually calls for. Particularly experienced with families navigating separation.

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If your family also needs help with parenting agreements or dispute resolution, visit TheMediationRoom.nz.

If your family also needs help with parenting agreements or dispute resolution, visit

TheMediationRoom.nz.